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[quote=Anonymous]Congratulations on defending your dissertation. I know what a bear that process can be. Honestly, I think you need to wait to get out of grad school to reassess. PhD programs are emotionally constipating. Myself and many of my friends found that when we finished and got jobs, some in academia and some in other fields, our lives and even our personalities changed quite a bit. Being in school makes it hard to see how the future is going to unfold, but after school you start making the choices that will shape your life - where you will live, what you will do, how you will spend your free time, etc. Focus on finishing and making some decisions about the future and then, when you land, think about the life that you want. You will naturally run into new people in that new life and you might find that you can imagine picking one to make a life with. Or you won’t feel that, and you can pursue a solo life. [/quote]
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