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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It sounds like you are the perfect candidate for being a single mom by choice. I would just say (1) don't do it if you're over 45 because it's not fair to make your poor child care of you when they are supposed to be in the prime of their life and (2) make sure your village really does intend to help you. I know two single moms by choice and both of them live with their parents - so grandma, grandpa, single mom, toddler. [/quote] Thank you for your comment! 🙃 Yes, I will definitely start early, as I likewise think it would be unfair for a young adult to have to step into that role when they should be enjoying life. My siblings have all explicitly said they’d be willing to help out, and some close friends as well (they currently have no desire for children themselves). I wouldn’t take advantage of that/overburden any of them though, and will employ help where and when needed to put us all in the best possible position for success. [/quote]
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