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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your story doesn't make much sense.  How is it that you were divorced last year in the home country rather than this country?  Did you just move here in the last year or something?

Depending on how much your private school is you might actually come out ahead with that arrangement vs. monthly CS payments and then you can just file for CS if he stops paying.  I wouldn't assume that your order will include him paying for private school nor would I assume that he will be ordered to maintain life insurance for the benefit of the child.

What state are you in now?[/quote]

OP here, yes, married in his home country right out of college (2004), since then we lived/worked as expats with just one year in DC. We separated more or less four years ago with no formal agreement (me with the kids in one country, him in another) and he sent me the divorce papers from his home country when I got back to the US at the end of 2020.

I'm living in Florida now and am filing a petition for custody and CS here (and private school is cheap). Last year, after months of our informal "agreement" he insisted on visiting with the kids when I asked him not to. This sparked my concern that he could do other things against my wishes, particularly take the children to his home country, which is why I am moving ahead with the petition. So the CS is more an outcome of all that- but the part ex DH is most focused on! [/quote]

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