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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your ex is trouble. [b]It will always be a struggle with him[/b] and there’s no reason to put yourself through that. The answer is steady guy or as yet unknown future guy. Your options aren’t limited to the two of them. [/quote]

Why be so negative? Therapy could definitely help them. I think all couples should go to counseling.[/quote]

Ugh you likely have not been in that type of tempestuous relationship. Full of arguments, anxiety, blame shifting - and almost guaranteed cheating is inevitable because of the outsized sense of entitlement a person like that had.  Hard pass.  
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Inevitable cheating? Again, so negative. Stop projecting.[/quote]

Look at how this OP describes this guy - hot headed, poor communication skills, disappears from her life and then later, when he knows she’s serious with someone else, swoops back in and says hey let’s get back together and get married.  That’s quite a sense of entitlement. But sure, if you think his overtures of attending therapy for addressing what sounds like a dumpster fire of an interpersonal relationship may be sufficient, let’s hope that’s right. [/quote]

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