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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here - this is all helpful, thanks. Maybe mom guilt isn’t even right for what i experience. I think both dhs and my parents were smart, well intended, overall good parents who each kind of made some major mistakes that had long term impacts (my husbands in missing his depression as a teen and then when they finally noticed it trying to stern talk it out of him, mine in repressing all difficult emotions in our house that I think has really limited my ability to connect with and trust other people) I’m not one of those people that blame my parents for all my problems and I really think they overall did a good job, but I’m constantly worried about “what if I f-up x now and cause y long term effect”[/quote] It was a different time then (not excusing your parents, just pointing out that things have changed a lot in 30 years). You know not to repeat their mistakes and that is huge. [/quote]
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