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[quote=Anonymous]Why wouldn’t you tell her? My mom told me the opposite. She was always upset that I stayed normal weight. She constantly commented on me in a bathing suit. She made fun of me exercising . I could tell she was closer to my obese sister and they shared camaraderie over it. She loved it when I was pregnant and made so much fun of me when I was postpartum saying things like- why aren’t you wearing shorts? Where’s your bikini now? All of that is painful. I let it roll of my back because I love my mom. She has a lot of trauma over her obesity and I won’t let it affect me. I refuse to let it pass on to my kids. There is nothing wrong with cooking healthfully for your family, explaining how you get fat (my kids have asked me as 2 year olds), explaining how some foods are healthy and others just occasional treats. [/quote]
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