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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP- I’m white, it seems that makes a difference? And I would say the men that tend to be at least somewhat into me are extremely nerdy, borderline ASD white men or south Asian men, almost all work in engineering/tech. I kind of realized I may be a back up for these men, as they probably don’t get a lot of attention. I tend to [b]not get involved with the south Asian men[/b] because I feel like they’re fetishizing me for being white. Though I am nerdy and into nerdy men, I just don’t know, nobody ever seems super into me. [/quote] Let me give you some old lady advice - sometimes you need to like people that like you. I am not saying you need to settle, but you DO need to be realistic. You have listed a group of people that are into you, and you have come up with excuses not to date them. And you basically mean socially awkward...which doesn't necessarily mean they are borderline ASD. The 6'3" prince that is kind, good looking, incredibly muscular, and a doctor is not coming for you.[/quote] OP: I’m fine dating socially awkward men, it’s actually a preference as I’m kind of awkward. And a few of them have told me they have ASD. It’s just that they don’t seem that into me and I end up having to be initiator for almost everything. Because of my weight, I then assume it’s a relationship of convenience on their part. I’ve also had one of these type of men literally tell he was not physically attracted to me, which dampened my self esteem for the future.[/quote]Do it. I know an American dude of south asian descent who married a grumbly, obese, woman with three kids which weren't his. Made a lot of money too-I think some second generation South Asian-American make solid incomes and come from a culture with female gods, prime ministers, philosophers, etc.[/quote]
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