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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thanks for the responses. I wasn’t expecting the comments about the close relationship with my parents being a red flag.

I do eat dinner there two or three nights a week.  I don’t cook; frankly, cooking, cleaning and everything that goes along with that seems like a tremendous amount of work that I never wanted to take on.  The other nights I get takeout or eat leftovers.  I do my own laundry and don’t sleep at my parents’ place.

The condo itself is nice – I actually had a decorator come in and set it up. To answer another poster, no one has ever mentioned the condo as a problem (though they may have thought it and not mentioned it.  After all, I didn’t think my relationship with my parents was a problem but apparently DCUM thinks otherwise.)[/quote]

It's not a problem that you don't cook, but describing the effort of cooking and cleaning up and omg grocery shopping for one person as "a tremendous amount of work" is a major red flag.  Most single women handle that for themselves without even really thinking about it.  You seem very lazy if that's too hard for you.
Condo, not wanting to get married, and seeing your parents 2-3 times per week don’t sound bad to me, as long as you’re upfront about it.  Not cooking at all though, that would be a problem for me.  I wouldn’t be into a guy who only eats at his parents, take-out and leftovers.  [/quote][/quote]

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