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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] You’re joking but that’s exactly how we have hosted family many times. Not wanting to burn vacation days and thousands of dollars is fair. Banning grandma and grandpa from a living room air mattress is not.[/quote] Nope, this would never work for me. If we really don’t have space (and sun sit mattress in our family room is not the space), they can stay in a hotel. It’s my house, of course it’s ok to decide who sleeps there.[/quote] That's fine in a vacuum but it's part of a bigger negotiation about how often everyone will be traveling. If the goal is to travel infrequently (that's my goal) you only have so many negotiating chips. [/quote]
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