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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would back off unless she asks for something specific. All dads want 50/50 custody even if they did not lift a finger before. All of them. Even if you worked FT and did all the work. My exH did not lift one finger until I said we were getting a divorce. He did 0 for the first 6 years of parenting two kids. 0. She should know this is common. And in VA, it is near impossible to fight 50/50 if one parent wants it.[/quote] And all dads SHOULD HAVE 50/50. This isn't negotiable. Whatever you perceive they did or did not do previously is not relevant.[/quote] Of course that should be negotiable. If the dads are uninvolved, unloving, uncaring, irresponsible, unreliable, unsafe….why should they get 50% when the other parent has been doing 99% of the parenting?[/quote]
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