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[quote=Anonymous]Ok, the withdrawal from the world a waiting for God to take over and wanting to become a saint part of this is a red flag for emerging disordered thinking. I'm Catholic, and if my 22-year-old became obsessive about religion and starting have grandiose thoughts of sainthood, I would do everything in my power (which you will soon find is limited by his status as an adult) to encourage him to get an evaluation.

You may want to actually go and talk to a psychiatrist and to a monk or priest yourself to get some clarity on the difference between passion for religion and disordered thinking. A psychiatrist can help you understand how to talk to someone having delusional thoughts if that starts to happen. There are several monasteries in the area and they are welcoming and might be helpful to you. They will tell you that "wanting to become a saint" is not the consistent with the humility the Church teaches and not how sainthood happens. One may strive to emulate the charity and faith and fortitude of a saint one admires, but to wish to become one (especially by sitting around waiting for it to happen) or believe you are destined to be one -- that's a whole different thing: usually a schizoaffective disorder of the grandiose type.[/quote]

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