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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t know, my 13 year marriage has had ups and downs in terms of frequency but we consistently have great chemistry and great sex. A lot of it is that we are both adventurous, sexually open people who like sex, like talking about it, like sharing fantasies,etc. I do get the craving for variety and my DH wouldn’t mind if I had a side experience but for me, it’s not worth it right now anyway…too much uncertainty and risk, especially where I live and with my profession. The early days new-person hormones don’t come back…but I do think you can keep the spark alive if you work on being a sexual person yourself, actively. I think about sex a lot, on purpose, read erotica, watch sexy movies, etc. It makes a huge difference for me. Women have responsive desire…you can’t just sit around waiting for lightning to strike. [/quote]

Agree with this, but the important part is that both parts of the couple work on being sexual people if it doesn't come naturally. If both people aren't super committed to a great sex life, it will fade away. If only one person is committed, my money is on an affair happening at some point. [/quote]

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