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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m a female but in my late 20s I was still in grad school and making 18K a year as a TA.  I am 47 now and make 500K.  I am glad that my DH didn’t rule me out because I wasn’t making as much as him 20 years ago.  In your 20s you need to focus on things like work ethic and career ambition, not the $ amount.  It is still pretty early in the curve for many professions.  [/quote]

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Met DH I'm grad school. Directly out of grad school he made ~40k and I still was in school.... fast forward to our mid 40s and we are in top 1% no matter how you slice the cake HHI or wealth.  Money isn't everything, but don't marry just for love...[/quote]

Ah yes, another I married him when we was poor, but he makes $$$, but I would love him anyway. [/quote]

I think the point here is they met in grad school. They were both going places anyway. So marry because of ambition AND love, not just one.

I would never remarry, if spouse died, simply because I would always worry about golddiggers.  And yes, we married poor.[/quote]

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