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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP I think it is unhealthy for you to be dwelling on what will become of your ex.  You should hope the best outcome for them since their happiness and stability is important for your kids.  Past that, focus on yourself [/quote]

It’s a stage.  Overcoming severe betrayal in a marriage happens in stages.  Ultimately, you are better off if you allow yourself to feel through all of them.  Revenge fantasies, anger, hate will be moved through along with than the grief and sorrow they mask.

Therapy is wonderful for this.  Soon you won’t care about either of these losers.  And, most likely, they won’t end up together and if they do someone will cheat again.

But, not your problem.  I wish you a happy future.[/quote]

+1 to all of this. It's a normal phase, but your happiness does not depend on her misery. My ex is still with the AP seven years later. They just got married and seem happy. Their lives are so boring, I would gouge my eyes out, ex and I are both happier apart.[/quote]

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