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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Chill. You are both in different phases of life. Do not say anything unless you want to risk the friendship. Bring son to dinner or not. [/quote]

I agree with this.  Before I had my DC, as much as I loved my girlfriends, I could only take a little bit of their kid(s) and their talk of kids.  We were in different places in our lives.

I also agree that you both seem to be focused on your own lives.  It sounds from this post that you might not be too interested in her love interest - the same as she's not too interested in yours.

The other point is that as a single woman, it might be scary to bring a new boyfriend into an environment of domestic bliss - If I remember back to my dating life, if I was recently dating someone, I would never bring them to a (best) friend's house who was married with kids.  I would think that I'm subtly telling my new boyfriend "this is my BFF.  See how great it is, she's married with kids.  I picture us getting married with kids and our two families can be besties forever and ever.  See?  see how great that would be?"

I know you already said you'd drop it, but I just wanted to point out the point about being scared to scare of a potentially new boyfriend.

Try and have fun with your BFF on a dinner out without your child - you might really enjoy the break.  [/quote]

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