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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP you’re ridiculous thinking that you’re going to tell him you want to divorce and that he’s going to do the research and neatly give you his plan. If he could do that you wouldn’t be divorcing.

YOU need to figure out what you want, research it, ask for it and file for separation. YOU need to figure out how you’re going to live in separate houses and who’s going to move or whatever. If you wait for him to take initiative you’re going to be waiting fir a decade or more. [/quote]

Op here. He won’t engage in conversations on the matter when I stop one of his tempers or arguments to point out how damaging it is or when calm a day or two later.
Child doesn’t have IeP at this point, it’s quite mild and school is progressive not tough. 
I have talked with lawyers, half of whom understood mental disorders and DV, some if whom did not. A couple saw massive dollar signs at the prospect of fighting him for things. I’d sign sole or majority custody asap but wouldn’t pay $200,000 and waste years fighting with an insane person who has no emotions but anger.

I’m fine with him attempting custody time, I understand if he won’t talk I have to move out with the kids. I wouldn’t care to do the separation in the same house or nesting. He is too much of a slob for that to make sense. [/quote]

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