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[quote=Anonymous]-resenting that I’m unwilling to relocate given this area is the epicenter of good jobs for me
[i]This is a good location for career women, bad for the male/female ratio in dating.[/i]
-expecting prompt texts and drawn out conversation while I’m working
[i]Tell him you work in a proprietary/cleared space and can only be reached by landline for emergencies.  No calls between 8-5 M-F is normal here.  Keep your cell in your car and give hi your receptionist's # and advise him/her to only transfer if it is urgent.  Otherwise return the texts exactly at 5:05pm daily.  Tell him, that is the best you'll do except in emergency.[/i]
-dismissing my professional expertise (it’s in something that everyone interacts with like say being a doctor)
[i]This is really odd.  It may just be your ex.  Unless he is in the same profession, ignore this[/i]
-advising me to not go for better opportunities
[i]I actually agree with this.  Job hopping too much isn't good and you won't establish yourself or cultivate long-term interactive skills.  Wait two years before resigning and always give 2 weeks.[/i]
-getting annoyed that I am thoughtful and therefore have my own independent opinions
[i]Eyeroll right back.[/i].

Overall, none of these sound like cheating, rape, assault, gaslighting, abandonment, neglect, stringing you along, gold-digging, etc.  I'd keep him and try to work it out and tolerate people.  You seem a little naive and yes, your writing doesn't reflect 1%er in English.  He may overachieve in something you can't do.
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