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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Dumbest esol troll post ever

Surgeons never work 7 days a week constantly. Everyone knows that.[/quote]

Not OP, but mine does so do many other.  Especially if they weren’t born into family wealth, they have to hustle too like the everyone else that wants to generate wealth.  Many surgeons work at more than one hospital and will moonlight off weekends at another facility.

I have a similar life OP.  All in all, as people have pointed out, these are small complaints and many people would trade their problems for yours.

So I’ll say this, I find as my DH gets older now and isn’t the youngest/newest, his workload has improved.  Now that he is mid career, he will pass on some of the longer and more complicated cases to more junior partners.  This doesn’t really translate to a day off, but it does mean he is come for dinner more often, can sometimes pick the kids up for school, and is generally around more.  It still is a lot manage everything solo, but just know you have it better than the vast majority of people and hire out when you feel stretched too thin.  In non covid times I would take the kids to hospital for lunch with him on days off school.  Also, living very close to hospital helps a ton too.  Mine can stop home between cases or clinic for lunch or to help kids with homework then head back in.  [/quote]

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