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[quote=Anonymous]My sister is like this sometimes but it never occurs to me to be snarky back because I'm not offended by the stuff she says. I know I'm making the right choices for my family. Plus, I don't even judge her for her choices! I think they are probably the right choices for HER family. All families are different. I think her behavior towards me stems from some longheld competitive with me that I've never really felt with her, and I feel bad for her that she can't just be happy with her own life. I also think she misperceives a lot about my life -- she thinks we work longer hours than we actually do, and also assumes we have a lot more money than we actually do. So her assessments aren't even based in reality and really have very little to do with me.

I get that stuff like this is annoying over time when it doesn't stop, but you can also just choose to spend less time with her if she struggles so much to just be pleasant around you. I would not hang out around someone who was always making snide remarks around me. And I have no problem missing family gatherings if I think they will be miserable for me or my immediate family. [/quote]

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