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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I think it's always more efficient to ~ extend a firm invitation suggesting one or two dates. Assume that if the person says, "no" (or doesn't respond at all) they will counter with another date if they are interested. You did this kind of but I would completely skip ever asking if they'd like to get together "sometime". You don't need that step and the aggravation re: what's next when there is silence. A little different: I'm very aggravated when I initiated, we got together and thought we had a good time. Then silence, except if we bump into each other they say, "Oh it was so much fun. We should get together again, please call me." Ah, no ... it's your turn to initiate. Your turn or nothing happens. I can handle someone not wanting to advance the relationship but, by saying this, they have made it much worse. [/quote]
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