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Reply to "If you grew up LMC/poor and now UMC/rich, do you have the same friends?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would plan things that your friends can comfortably afford. The type of travel that you can now pay for might not be on the list.[/quote] +1 this takes the awkwardness off the table. I have a college friend who is always making snippy remarks a out our different financial decisions. She would accept it if I payed for a trip. It would be fun. She would be passive aggressively resentful. And I'm not sure I want to introduce that into our relationship, so I don't offer. I do think about it every year or so and always come back to the same answer. Just do things within her budget, be grateful for what I have, humble, and sensitive.[/quote] I decided to not push spring break on the friends who can’t comfortably pay for the peak spring break prices. I’m not sure how to handle the girls trip. [/quote]
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