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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Can you give us an example op?[/quote]

He bought me this cat brooch made of gold with little rubies for eyes.  I don't ever wear brooches and it is ugly (not to mention expensive).

This winter he surprised the family with a ski trip to Vail.  No one else in the family likes to ski.  But it was expensive and prepaid so we went.

Last year for my birthday he surprised me (and the kids) with another expensive weekend getaway -- to NYC to see some Broadway shows.  I don't enjoy musical theater and neither do the kids.

I could go on...[/quote]

I get that these aren’t gifts you would’ve chosen for yourself d you wish he’d take your interests into consideration. That’s fair. But have you ever gotten him a gift like this? Apparently he’s into musicals and skiing. Have you ever given him the gift of a surprise ski trip or weekend trip to see some Broadway shows? Maybe he’s giving it because that’s the only way he gets it. He might be trying to connect and do something he enjoys as a family, hoping that someone else will pick up and enjoy his hobby or interest as well. It doesn’t sound exactly selfish, more like misguided. [/quote]

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