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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The yelling at you to "stop making up lies" after he assaulted you would be the final straw for me. I would be contacting a lawyer today. [/quote]

Thanks everyone, for all your thoughts. This is the part that makes my stomach churn the most. He also sent me a text saying the same thing, I guess thinking if he documents it in a text, it somehow adds credibility to his story, assuming I plan to tell someone about this, like a lawyer.  The other part that makes me think this may not be salvageable is that he seems to believe that the worst part is that I “let” the kids hear by yelling so loud.  While I wish they hadn’t heard, I don’t think I’m the one who needs to take responsibility for what he did, nor do I think he should expect me to cover for him in the moment. [/quote]

What a bastard.

He’s ruined all trust and reliability to try to save his ego and image. But to whom? Not you- you know the truth.  Or the kids- they know the truth.

He’s lying to himself. Or he’s a narc and thinks he can make up his own narrative and others question what they saw and heard.  Not more than once though… Which means he’s a mental case. He’s fighting and arguing to preserve his image of himself, for himself.  He could care less about the damage to you, the marriage, the kids.  It’s all about him.

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