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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Remember the blowback Ayelet Waldman got for speaking her mind about this topic publicly? https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1185105/A-mothers-confession-Hate-I-love-husband-MORE-children.html[/quote] I was going to post this. I agree with her. I would jump in front of a train for my kid but I love my husband more and put our marriage first. [/quote] The only issue I have with that piece (and this post made me think of it) is where she said she’d more easily get over the death of one of her children than that of her husband. That is, to me, unfathomable. DH and I love each other a ton, but we’d also push each other in front of a bus to save one of our kids. A couple can prioritize their marriage in ways that aren’t inappropriately selfish. [/quote]
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