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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Does it have to be a contest?[/quote] OP here. No. I was genuinely curious because I'm sure DH would say me too, hands down. We picked each other and are together for life versus kids who you try to train up to good humans, but they leave after 18 years.[/quote] I am opposite. To me you sound callous, saying you and your husband “picked each other for life and you try to “train up” (like dogs?) kids and they are gone at 18. I feel sad that you don’t have the deep feelings some have for their children. My teen is my heart.[/quote] Agree. Something is off here. Like some rule or literal translation of parent versus child that OP is fixated on. I don’t believe she actually means she’s saying. Something is off with semantics at a minimum, or her value system at worse case.[/quote]
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