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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Unless you’re making total crap food, he has to be the one to take this on. You could help him with his self esteem though. [b]Low self-esteem often leads to over eating[/b], so if he doesn’t maintain his self esteem he might spiral. I would do things like encourage him to big clothes that actually fit well and feel good. [/quote] He is on medication that affects his appetite. This is not a psychological issue, but thanks for bringing blame to weight issues, because lord knows we don't get enough of that. OP, are there side dishes that appeal to your kids and relative that your husband could just pass by? Mac and cheese, cheese grits, some kind of creamy pasta or potato thing?[/quote] I honestly don’t know what you mean. Here is what I have seen: somebody gains weight because of a medical issue, they start feeling bad about themselves, then they cope with food, then they feel worse abojt themselves, etc. My point is that weight isn’t the problem, it’s all the shame people feel about weight that’s the problem. [/quote]
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