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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Haven’t you wondered why he didn’t propose when you got pregnant? [/quote]

I figured it was money - between the baby and house it’s just been very expensive. Last year he wanted to know the cost of a wedding. I reassured him that I didn’t need anything expensive. [/quote]

You shouldn’t be wondering- you need to actually communicate! I strongly suggest therapy.[/quote]

+1 This is weird, OP. You’re just waiting around to see if he brings up marriage again? And no, bills in marriage aren’t usually like living together. A lot of married people have combined finances.[/quote]

And even those who don't are just playing a psychological game (absent a prenup) because legally, [b]married property belongs to bot[/b]h.[/quote]

so long as it is co-mingled. If he inherited $5mil and kept it separate, it wouldn't need to be shared, even if married.[/quote]

There are a ton of variables and that is usually but not always true with inheritance, but not many other finances. No need to get into the weeds on state by state, situation by situation divorce law. The point is that it doesn't apply to OP since they aren't married -- she has none of the legal guidelines or protections.[/quote]

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