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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]People on DCUM believe these things. If you aren't pretty enough, like Carrie Bradshaw, you don't deserve boyfriends. If you are frumpy, you don't deserve a "rich" husband. Same for being too fat, too skinny, or too old. And they can't understand why they aren't "winning" at life despite all their advantages.[/quote]

Yep. I am a person who is chubby, a couple years older than my very handsome and fit husband, and I haven’t had great career successes- in large part Bc I was diagnosed as an adult with ADHD and struggled to manage it well until very recently and was in fields that were a complete mismatch for my issues.

My mother and unmarried/no kids sister cannot understand why I seem to “have it all” and don’t worship at the altar of their perfection. If something goes wrong for me, they gloat about it and love to call and ask for all the gory details, and when things go well, they are extra nasty and mean to me or they just avoid me. It’s depressing and hurtful, but I can’t change them.[/quote]

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