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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you’re willing to continue to hang out with a woman who gossiped about someone you consider you’re “closest” to, then you’re a bad friend.  [/quote]

I think it’s selfish to expect everyone to end years of friendship over minor gossip. Our children all play together and are close. [b]So their memories and bonds should be disrupted because someone mentioned someone else gained weight? That’s immature in my opinion.[/b] It’s fine to bow out of the friendship if you are that offended, but to dictate that everyone else must do the same is ridiculous. It’s not like she slept with her husband or assaulted her or something. [/quote]

No, their “memories and bonds” are being disrupted because one of the women in this group is a jerk and a bad friend.  As for maturity, it’s unbelievably immature to gossip about someone in your close friend group.  I’m with the PP who has less tolerance for poor treatment by friends as they get older.  Believe it or not, plenty of us manage to be flawed humans without trashing our friends to each other.[/quote]

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