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[quote=Anonymous]Are you talking about first dates or several weeks/months in? I’m not flirtatious or physically affectionate until I get to know someone. That’s just how I am. Once I feel secure with a person, then I’m extremely affectionate, physical, and sexual. So I don’t think what you’re feeling is abnormal, I think it’s pretty common among women and is pretty important for keeping us safe. If men are giving you a hard time, they’re not good men to waste your time on. My now-H was very understanding that I take things slow and never pressured me, he wanted me to be comfortable and enjoy it. Don’t compromise or make yourself do things you aren’t comfortable with. And for gods sake, don’t listen to the advice to drink and then get it over with. That’s horrible. Touch should be something enjoyable and pleasurable, not something you need to drug yourself for or force yourself to do. [/quote]
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