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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Only if you are super, super realistic about it. 1) People say "children are resilient" but sometimes they are, sometimes they aren't. And the cliche is not "children like their stepparents". 2) Parenting is forever. You get a lull when they go off to college and are in their 20s, if all goes well, but then it's weddings and babies and they'll want your partner to be the doting grandparent. Problems-- very real problems-- can crop up at any time and being a parent means being supportive even when it's a lot. 3) Don't kid yourself that everything's the ex's fault. It isn't. Don't be that naive new partner believing whatever they're told. 4) If you don't agree with your partner's parenting choices, break up. They aren't going to change for you. They probably aren't even capable of changing. And you should never agree to raise children with someone whose parenting you disagree with. [/quote] Solid advice here[/quote]
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