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[quote=Anonymous]A few things here…. 
1. Your spouses symptoms and behavior sound like those of a covert narcissist. There are resources and online communities  available for people who experience this type of hidden abuse. You should look into it if only to get validation, hear other stories and gather info.  A divorce would take time, documentation. Ie a notebook w day, time and description of abuse. It’s difficult to explain gaslighting. his ego will be badly damaged and it could get very difficult. He will lie to preserve his ego. He will likely hate you for abandoning him. It’s ok. Your relationship is filled with trauma. You are allowed to heal and feel safe.

2. Your adult children will see it all eventually. We sacrifice our entire lives for our children. At some point they have to separate and see and respect you as an individual with needs. It is better to be a role model for strength and resilience rather than a victim of abuse.

3. After two years in Covid so many people feel isolated and disconnected from others. Personally I think it’s far more lonely to be in a marriage where you don’t feel valued and supported.  You will join groups that offer support. Believe in yourself because if you can endure this for so many years, you can do anything!

Be strong. You are and always have been enough. You can do this. [/quote]

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