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[quote=Anonymous]Cynicism at any age in a big turn off for men. I happen to love my snarky, sarcastic, cynical girlfriends, but first of all, I'm a woman, and they all got married in their twenties. Be careful not to let your cynicism come across to men with potential. To them, cynicism smells like bitterness which is akin to being a disappointed old hag, not exactly who they are looking to spend the next decades coming home to. Men are for better or worse simple creatures almost like children: they like to be around happy, positive people who laugh easily and often. As far as your mindset when dating, of course look for red flags, don't excuse disrespectful behavior, but also stave off feelings of negativity or pessimism by asking, "But what if it all worked out?" It has for millions before you and will happen for millions after you, so why not you? [/quote]
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