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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A man (39yo) and I (38yo) have been dating (proper dates a few times per week) for the past 2.5 months. Recently, we started having sex.

The other night I asked him if he was dating or seeing anyone else and he said no, but that he had "met a few people a few weeks ago."

I asked if they had slept together and he said no. I told him that I wouldn't feel comfortable remaining intimate unless we were exclusive. He said, "that sounds reasonable."

I was fine in the moment but after reflecting on it, I'm not crazy about it. I guess I'm disappointed that a) he didn't bring it up first, and that b) he didn't seem overly enthusiastic about it when I did.

Am I being too sensitive? Should I let this go?[/quote]

Did he even say he wanted to be exclusive? Sounds like he said what you wanted was reasonable and didn’t commit to what he wanted. Maybe I’m mishearing.[/quote]

OP: he did agree to it, yes.[/quote]

Are you sure? Sounds like he just said your stance was reasonable, about not being intimate. Why do you think you're now exclusive?[/quote]

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