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[quote=Anonymous]My wife has gained 40+ pounds since we met 20 years ago (and 50+ since her lowest weight in our relationship). I'm about the same weight I was when we met. At one point, I lost 20 pounds, but gained it back. I'm now about 10 pounds over my optimal weight. I don't think it's my place to determine her optimal weight, but she's definitely over it. I'm definitely less physically attracted to her at this weight (which is close to 200, she's 5'9"). I'm happy and grateful that she still wants to have sex with me once or twice a week, as I see that as a necessity. But I would enjoy looking at her more if she lost at least some of the weight she has gained. When I got super fit from running and lost 20 pounds, she was always nagging me that I was too skinny and needed to lift weights. I started lifting, cut the running, and am back to my original weight.[/quote]
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