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[quote=Anonymous]I don’t really know because he had pretty much the same body since we got married 14 years ago. For him, I know my weight impacts his physical attraction to me. He has never said anything but he is clearly more into my body when I’m thinner. But the thing is that going from 120 to maybe 143 (and I’m 5’2 the changes were significant) hasn’t impacted how he really *feels* about me or how frequently we have sex. His actions have never made me feel insecure about my body. Maybe it helps that I don’t generally feel insecure about my body, even when I was at my heaviest. As we age, I think fewer and fewer of us are partnered with people who embody our ideal body type. It is what it is and for most people that’s fine. We have to let go of expecting to be the others’ ideal or expecting the other to be your ideal. It’s the respect for another that matters. Maybe this is just my idealism talking though. [/quote]
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