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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How would I even know about the infidelity and the other child? I assume only people very very close to you would know, in which case "I" would be looking at this in some kind of context and so no, would not simply judge. Is there a reason people who don't know you well would hear all of this? I haven't read the other thread.[/quote]

The kid is [u]Clearly [/u] not ours. I haven't been pregnant recently. And he had already told his friends and family. So of whom don't like me.[/quote]
Now I'm judging him and worried about you. If you stay with him, his #1 priority needs to be rebuilding your marriage. Two red flags:

1. It sounds like the two of you don't have/he isn't following an agreement on how you will tell others the news of this baby 
2. He has friends who don't like you? That's toxic. Your relationship is on life support, and if it's his priority to make it work, he needs to step away from ANYONE who isn't 100% behind it.

You're the wronged party here. I'd have nothing but respect for a spouse who can welcome an out-of-wedlock child. But if your husband isn't 100% committed to you, I see misery ahead.[/quote]

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