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[quote=Anonymous]I would not rely on him for anything. If you split that will be the scenario, so implement it now. If you split there will be less money for childcare, think of the status quo as max outsourcing. Embrace that and stop trying to change him or his abilities. Divorce is brutal financially and especially hard on special needs kids. I would try to hold on for another few years if you can. Have a visual image of dropping the rope on your end and do it for your own mental health and physical well being. Simply handling things yourself will be less effort and mroe effective. That you have childcare and involved family is amazing. Try to be grateful for the ways you are supported and don't focus on the rest, I know it is not easy but it is  the only way to move forward for your own well being. With DH's neurological abilities and lack of interventions, couples therapy is not likey to pay off, did not for me, either. Divorce really was incredibly hard on my kid with anxiety and attention issues. If you can, give them a solid single home, at least for as long as you can. [/quote]

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