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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]A child thru adoption is not the same as your own child. 
It is someone elses child that you hope will not have any contact with its original family. And you might have to deal with the baggage that comes when and if that kid descides to trace its roots. And there are medical issues, psychological etc 
But for many that is the only way they can have children. 
For the adoptee a lingering sense of loss, a feeling of abandonement[/quote]

Holy, shit!  You are messed up.  Mother of both biological and adopted children and you have everything wroing.

My adoption children are my children.  Period.
I fervently hope that they will someday be able to meet their biological family.  I am secure enough in our family and our love not to be threatened by their biological parents.  
There can be medical and psychological issues with any human being.  There are not guarantees in life.
Some adoptees feel a lingering sense of loss, but not all adoptees.  In fact, some individuals have a lingering sense of loss and unhappiness.  It is life and no two people react to life the same.

Please do not spread this garbage.  You cannot know what goes on in the hearts and minds of all adoptive parents, their children and their families.  Please seek assistance for whatever is driving your bitterness.
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Don't engage the troll, PP. I recognize that poster's sense of writing and he/she is the same anti-adoption poster who will turn any thread on adoption nasty for their own agenda.[/quote]

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