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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There is a low income senior place (I fit the minimum age requirements) in my town with openings. My kids can stay with my spouse.[/quote]

PS if my kids want to visit me, great. If not, I won’t push them.[/quote]

So you're planning to tell them they don't have a home with you, and force your spouse to have 100% physical custody, and you think your spouse will agree with that and it won't be emotionally damaging to the kids?

I don't see how you are going to afford much child support but if you aren't having any physical custody you will likely owe it.[/quote]

The senior home is within walking distance of our house. This would be a place I could afford, and it doesn’t allow young people to reside there.[/quote]

Also, as I said before, it is low income housing for seniors.[/quote]

You can't just force 100% physical custody on your ex because you want a cheaper apartment.  It sounds like you need a financial planner and a lawyer to help you understand your state's divorce and child support laws.[/quote]

My dad refused joint custody. His family (not mom’s) who went to the hearing confirmed it. I will contribute what I can but I don’t have much. I suppose I could take them part time if i live out of a van.[/quote]

It sounds like you can't afford a divorce.  Maybe you should focus on increasing your income.[/quote]

Courts will make me stay married bc I’m too poor?[/quote]

Courts will tell you to get a job and reduce your expenses.  And the government can seize your assets and tax refunds if you owe child support and don't pay.

If you really cannot work, try to get on disability.[/quote]

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