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[quote=Anonymous][quote] OP here I don't hate her for what I mentioned these are just the most recent things that are pissing me off. I hate her because she told me I ruined her life, that our parents shouldn't have had me because she wasn't ready for it, she ruined my graduation, the countless names and verbal abuse she has hurled at me, she was physically abusive when we were younger, and could even be nice as long as I did exactly what she wanted and as long as I was not doing better than she was. There was never any consequence for any of this, the entire family still revolves around her.

You are correct I should get therapy.[/quote]

I have a brother who was very physically absuive and it’s difficult for me to be around him. The family would rather have me miss holidays than recognize the effects of his behavior on me. I can’t change those facts. Now I do holidays with friends and every once in a while see my family for a gathering, Is it painful to isolate myself? You bet, but not as painful as pretending that I’m not hurt.

You are understandably hurt because of things your sister has done in the past and the fact that the family accepts her behavior. Neither of these things are going to change. Find a therapist and talk about how you are going to cope with these unchanging facts. We can’t make other people change, but we can decide how we will interact.[/quote]

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