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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ok, so re-framing this here:

- Sister annoys everyone ruining a celebration
- Sister annoys your other sister telling her what to do with her baby
- Sister annoys your mother because she thinks everything revolves around her

If she annoys you, you are probably in good company.  Others just deal with it and don't speak up.  It's okay, you are obviously the better sister.  You just aren't the squeaky wheel everyone wants to just nod at till it shuts up.[/quote]

That's just it, no one else seems to be bothered by her at all, they just think she is great, and if she does do something nasty, there's always an excuse. And yes, for the most part, I don't really engage with her or the rest o my family, it's all pretty much just surface-level stuff. But sometimes I just get aggravated and realize how much I cannot stand her.[/quote]

OP turn it around, what if you made other plans for the holidays and really enjoyed them.  Would you still be aggravated or would you look at your family not celebrating because of this one person and think they are silly.  That's the thing, go out and make plans you will enjoy and love.  Then when your family turn around and say they can't celebrate because your sister went to a hotspot and ruined it for everyone you can smile, shrug and be grateful you aren't part of the craziness anymore.

Remove yourself from it.  Create distance between your sister and yourself.  [/quote]

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