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[quote=Anonymous]You are being emotionally abused. NO ONE deserves to be treated that like. He has manipulated you into thinking that his blow ups are your fault. Does any of this sound familiar? --Calling you names, insulting you, or constantly criticizing you. --Acting jealous or possessive or refusing to trust you --Isolating you from family, friends, or other people in your life. --Monitoring your activities with or without your knowledge, including demanding to know where you go, who you contact, and how you spend your time. --Attempting to control what you wear, including clothes, makeup, or hairstyles. --Humiliating you in any way, especially in front of others. --Gaslighting you by pretending not to understand or refusing to listen to you; questioning your recollection of facts, events, or sources; trivializing your needs or feelings; or denying previous statements or promises. --Threatening you, your children, your family, or your pets (with or without weapons). --Damaging your belongings, including throwing objects, punching walls, kicking doors, etc. --Blaming you for their abusive behaviors. --Accusing you of cheating, or cheating themselves and blaming you for their actions. --Cheating on you to intentionally hurt you and threatening to cheat again to suggest that they’re “better” than you. --Telling you that you’re lucky to be with them or that you’ll never find someone better. Please seek help and counseling. Here are a few resources: DC Victim Hotline - 844-443-5732 Montgomery County Family Justice Center: 240-773-0444 Arlington County: 703-237-0881 Fairfax County: 703-360-7273 National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-7233 Chat online at thehotline.org text "start" to 88788[/quote]
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