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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I had an ex basically bring this up to me very sweetly and it was one of the things that helped me heal from an ED.  he basically told me how beautiful he found the fat I had on my body (at that point I had dieted a lot of it away but had some on my stomach).  It put me on the road to getting back to a healthy weight [/quote]

I got on a health kick once and lost weight. It felt good and I kept working out and eating clean. I was in a long distance relationship and when my boyfriend visited me (it has been 3 months), he told me I was too skinny and he wanted me to work on gaining weight because he liked my body with some fat. I immediately started eating more and trying to gain weight was really fun. I got to a good weight and recognized that going below a certain weight wasn’t attractive or healthy. I never had a ED except for those 3 months and although I feel I’d look better 10 lbs lighter, I eat what I want. Just saying depending on your wife’s personality, it might be good for you to frame her weight loss in a way that helps her realize how attractive she is with more fat. If my friends said something, I’d probably assume they were a little envious, it mattered coming from my BF. [/quote]

100%.  Because honestly a major motivation for women starting on this track is feeling they would be more attractive with less fat.  When it comes from someone they are in love with and sexually with, it carries a lot more weight than when it comes from a mom or sister or friend.  [/quote]

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