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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here...

I agree with the Typs A/Type B mix! I work with someone who is Type an and we balance each other at work but in a relationship I think it is more conflict than balance. I think it is actually harder for the Type A person, at least in my experience...he was continually frustrated with me being laid back.

The traveling thing isn't so much that he needs to have traveled to X places. more just that he has a love of adventure, exploring...seeing new places.

I am okay with kids, divorced as long as there isn't a lot of ex drama and he is actively involved in his kids lives.

As for what friends say..
1. I can come across as intimidating as I am not very needy. I am very independent, emotionally strong, and self-confident and this makes it seem like I don't really need someone.
2. I am a bit too intellectual - I get told I need to follow my heart, express emotions more rather than reasoning everything through from every perspective. 
3. I don't feel strong physical attraction / sexual chemistry very easily - I need intellect and character as well as looks to get turned on. Not many guys seem to really do that for me. I have a hard time dating guys I am not attracted to in the hopes attraction will grow.
4. I am okay / comfortable being single so don't put a lot of effort into meeting someone. [/quote]

I hate to be the one to say it, but you sound like a Type A person who thinks they are a Type B person.  When your travel, do you have a set itinerary or do you make a plan as you go?

As for waiting for strong physical attraction, I personally think that is over rated -- unless you are going to get a per-nuptual agreement in which he agrees to never put on weight, lose his hair, or otherwise age.  As you get older, you are going to start to realize that the sexiest thing a guy can do is treat you well, as an equal.

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Are you a guy? Cause i like you.[/quote]

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