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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here..thanks. I guess I am really just not sure what to compromise on. I don't really care about looks but I do care about being physically attracted to him and having sexual chemistry. I don't really care about money but I do care that he is financially independent and responsible with money. I don't really care about education but I do care that he is intelligent and can have meaningful discussions.

I am mid thirties - I know who I am and i am not sure how not to be picky.

I know that I really don't mesh well with people who are uptight/Type A/rigid/high stress as I am spontaneous, laid back, and flexible. I But is that picky?

I love to travel, to go on adventures, to explore the world off the beaten track. I have traveled almost every year of my life. So I don't really want to be with someone who is a homebody who has no interest in the world and who hates traveling. But is that too picky?

I know how I feel about myself as a woman and have ideas about gender roles. I broke up with one guy because I hated how he treated his mother, another because he wanted/expected me to me an emotional mess that he could fix and didn't really think women could have it all together. But is that too picky?

I guess I am not sure where I am being picky and the reality of being single in my thirties where I knew who I am and what I want. [/quote]

I think you could be a bit picky, since I'm guessing that the smart, sexy, financially independent guys are either married or are dating people women 25  to 30.  [/quote]

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