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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't know why people have to make this a complicated subject. It really is not. The answer is very simple.

You are not straight if you want to have sex with someone of the same gender. That's all there is to it.

If you appreciate and admire someone of the same gender, but have no desire to have sex with that gender, you are not bi or gay.

Do you feel the hunger and desire to do the deed with someone of the same sex? No, a daring kiss isn't it, that's what silly teenagers do to pretend they're being cool. I mean actually getting down to the dirty deeds themselves. Do you have a hunger for sexual organs and exploring them? Are you aroused by them?

All this talk about spectrum is merely invented academia speak. You either want to have sex with someone of the same gender, or opposite gender, and for a very small number of people, both.

OP, I assume you are a woman. Go look at yourself in the mirror. Then picture yourself with another woman. In bed. Rolling around. Performing oral activities on each other. Kissing each other passionately. Hugging each other tightly. Being hot in desire and passion for the other woman because she's a woman.

If you cannot and the idea doesn't arouse you and fill you with desire, and is even perhaps rather repulsive, you are most definitely not bi or a lesbian. Don't worry. It's ok  :wink: I'm reminded of an episode of SATC where Charlotte falls in with a crowd of power lesbian couples and is enchanted by their world and talks about wanting to be part of their circles, and one of them turns to her and effectively says if you don't munch carpet, you aren't one of us.

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Different poster. I never wanted to have sex with either gender. But I did want kids so I married a man. What does that make me?[/quote]

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