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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No of course not.

If these are your thoughts, it is time for a divorce. You have one life. [/quote]

That’s a very real and permanent step to take as a response to a transient thought.

What’s your response to people who think about suicide?  Lobotomy?  [/quote]

Therapy.

However you cannot change another person, so divorce. Hoping/wishing death on your husband and the father of your children is not normal. Time to take action and make changes for yourself.[/quote]

Or.  Maybe you don’t need to change, and you are just going through a crappy part of your life right now.  [/quote]

Wishing death is more than “a crappy part of life”.

Go talk to someone. That energy is not good for you.[/quote]

I’m ok.  I can recognize that I have a thought and it doesn’t mean that I need to take drastic action to upend my life.  
I get that you don’t have these thoughts, but they are totally normal.  You can think about suicide, and it doesn’t mean that you are a bad person, and you need to change into a better person.  And you can fantasize about your partner dying, and it doesn’t mean that you are in a bad marriage and need to divorce.  
It might mean those things, but it might not.

Some parts of life are miserable and you just need to make it through them.  
It’s very possible that you could be thinking about your spouse’s death or your own death right now, and in five years be very happy and glad to be alive and married to this person.  
Not every thought requires drastic actions.

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