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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No, I don’t hope he’ll die. I love him more than anyone else in the world other than my kids and I also would hate for my kids to lose their dad. However, like a PP, sometimes I do fantasize about being alone or being a single mom. I think if that were to actually be reality, I would be lonely and sad a lot but it’s still a small fantasy I have in the back of my mind. I think for me what it really means is I need more alone time and especially during the pandemic I have felt stuck/trapped at home sometimes w my spouse and I both WFH and last year having the kids in virtual school. It was/is just too much togetherness.[/quote]

I am the PP you are talking about and you are so right about that fantasy being about needing more solitary time. I feel like the loss of independence from getting married and having a child kind of snuck up on me -- I didn't feel it as it happened because I was (and am) so in love with my DH and DD. But then one day you wake up and realize that you literally never get to be alone, to make a plan for yourself without factoring others into it. So I fantasize about single motherhood because it's almost like the loneliness would appeal to me. But I don't actually want to lose my DH. I just want to feel truly independent again. I wonder if he feels this way too sometimes.[/quote]

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