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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] OP here. We got married so young that we never thought about kids or talked about it at all. I would like a family someday but I always saw myself as an older mom (having a kid at age 38-40). Though I know that may not be realistic given possible fertility issues down the road. I just don't feel ready to have a kid though I will be AMA soon, so I feel like I better get to it though I am not ready to give up the DINK lifestyle.[/quote] If you're in your mid-30s and have been married 7 years, you didn't get married all that early! I was married in my early 20s, and we did talk about our plans to have kids even then. We had Kid 1 before we turned 30, and Kid 2 just after. I'd guess that the reason the issue never arose has less to do with your age at marriage than with the fact that kids weren't a priority for you, at least at that time. [/quote]
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